Social networking web site with dinner offer feature

ABSTRACT

A method on a server for facilitating meal planning for a first and second individual over a communications network is disclosed. The method includes receiving a desired profile from the first individual over, matching the desired profile to a profile of the second individual, sending a message to the first individual indicating the match, receiving a command from the first individual including an offer to attend a meal with the second individual and an offer to pay for the meal, sending a message to the second individual including the offers, and receiving a command from the second individual accepting the offer to attend the meal and accepting the offer to pay for the meal, thereby executing a contract to attend a meal with the first individual, wherein the first individual pays for the meal.

CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS

This patent application is a continuation in part of, and claimspriority to, U.S. patent application Ser. No. 13/245,865 filed Sep. 27,2011. The subject matter of U.S. patent application Ser. No. 13/245,865is hereby incorporated by reference in its entirety.

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FIELD OF THE INVENTION

The invention disclosed broadly relates to the field of electroniccommerce, and more particularly relates to the field of socialnetworking web sites engaging in electronic commerce.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

Dating in modern times can be a difficult course to navigate. With theadvent of internet dating, prospective suitors now have access to anincreasingly larger pool of men and women to choose from. Though thereare benefits to having more choices in the dating scene, there are alsodrawbacks. It can be more difficult, for example, to find a partner thatfits a particular profile. With a larger population of people in thedating pool, it can take longer and require more effort for a person tohone in on just the right partner. This can be tedious, time-consumingand discouraging for the online dater.

Another drawback associated with the larger dating pool available inonline dating is the wide variety of individuals. Because the internethas provided access to the general population, the typical online daterwill encounter people of all cultures, race, ages, locations, religions,sexual orientations, socio-economic statuses and backgrounds. Sincedating practices may vary among different people, however, there areadjustments that must be made when people of differing backgrounds go ona date.

For example, traditionally, the man was expected to pay when dining witha woman. In contemporary times, however, this is not always the case.Sometimes, the woman will prefer to pay for the entire meal, prefer topay for the meal some of the time or pay half of the bill (i.e., “goingDutch”). Thus, it can be tricky and awkward to determine who should paywhen the bill arrives at the end of the dining experience. Thissituation becomes even more complicated when same-sex couples or couplesof different backgrounds are involved.

Consequently, a need exists to overcome the problems with the prior artas discussed above, and particularly for a more efficient anduser-friendly way of facilitating dinner or lunch planning for twoindividuals.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

Briefly, according to an embodiment of the present invention, a methodon a server for facilitating meal planning for a first and secondindividual over a communications network is disclosed. The methodcomprises receiving a desired profile from the first individual over thecommunications network; matching the desired profile to a profile of thesecond individual; sending a message over the communications network tothe first individual indicating the profile of the second individualmatched the desired profile; sending a message over the communicationsnetwork to the first individual including an offer for a meal at aparticular establishment; receiving a command from the first individualover the communications network, wherein the command comprises anacceptance of the offer for the meal at the particular establishment;receiving a command from the first individual over the communicationsnetwork, wherein the command comprises an offer to attend a meal withthe second individual at the particular establishment and an offer topay for the meal; sending a message over the communications network tothe second individual wherein the message comprises the offer from thefirst individual to attend a meal at the particular establishment withthe second individual and the offer from the first individual to pay forthe meal; and receiving a command over the communications network fromthe second individual accepting the offer to attend the meal at theparticular establishment and accepting the offer to pay for the meal,thereby executing a contract to attend a meal with the first individual,wherein the first individual pays for the meal.

In another embodiment, a computer system for facilitating meal planningfor a first and second individual over a communications network,comprising a server connected to the communications network, isdisclosed. The server is configured for receiving a desired profile fromthe first individual over the communications network; matching thedesired profile to a profile of the second individual; sending a messageover the communications network to the first individual indicating theprofile of the second individual matched the desired profile; sending amessage over the communications network to the first individualincluding an offer for a meal at a particular establishment; receiving acommand from the first individual over the communications network,wherein the command comprises an acceptance of the offer for the meal atthe particular establishment; receiving a command from the firstindividual over the communications network, wherein the commandcomprises an offer to attend a meal at the particular establishment withthe second individual and an offer to pay for the meal; sending amessage over the communications network to the second individual whereinthe message comprises the offer from the first individual to attend ameal at the particular establishment with the second individual and theoffer from the first individual to pay for the meal; and receiving acommand over the communications network from the second individualaccepting the offer to attend the meal at the particular establishmentand accepting the offer to pay for the meal, thereby executing acontract to attend a meal with the first individual, wherein the firstindividual pays for the meal.

The foregoing and other features and advantages of the present inventionwill be apparent from the following more particular description of thepreferred embodiments of the invention, as illustrated in theaccompanying drawings.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

The subject matter, which is regarded as the invention, is particularlypointed out and distinctly claimed in the claims at the conclusion ofthe specification. The foregoing and other features and also theadvantages of the invention will be apparent from the following detaileddescription taken in conjunction with the accompanying drawings.

FIG. 1 is a block diagram illustrating the network architecture of asystem for facilitating meal planning for a first and second individualover a communications network, in accordance with one embodiment of thepresent invention.

FIG. 2 is a flow chart showing the control flow of the process forfacilitating meal planning for a first and second individual over acommunications network, according to one embodiment of the presentinvention.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION

The present invention solves the problems with the prior art byproviding a simple and user-friendly computer system for allowing onlinedating individuals to find others that match a desired profile and thenmake meal plans with those other individuals, wherein the subject of whopays for the meal is predetermined, thereby avoiding the awkwardness ofdeciding who pays for a meal. The present invention is advantageoussince it allows for the online dating individuals to focus on getting toknow each other and avoid wasting time and worry about awkward socialprotocols, such as deciding who should pay for a meal.

Additionally, the present invention improves upon the prior art byproviding technologically advanced methods for advertising and promotionin an online dating environment. The present invention employs the useof push technology to push coupons and ads to users. This isadvantageous as it facilitates commerce over a communications networkand speeds up the process of fielding coupons and ads to a user base.Additionally, the present invention improves upon the prior art byproviding the inviting individual with offers or discounts for a meal ata particular establishment. If the offer or discount is accepted, theidentity of the restaurant is included in the meal invitation to theinvitee, thereby enticing him or her to accept the invitation.

Many men and woman often need an extra advantage to make up for whatmight be something they lack—perhaps they are not good looking or toshort—and thus the offer of a free meal at a fine restaurant is a way tocompensate for this lack of attractiveness. By sending a “dinner do”free restaurant invitation to join them for dinner, this can even thedating field, and “dinner do” would be first site to not talk about whata member might offer as an incentive to date them, but actually offer areal offer that can be acted upon immediately as a way to make them moredesirable and attractive, and raise the probability of an acceptance ofa date and an actual hook-up for a relationship.

The present invention offers a method of offering a man or a woman anextra advantage to make up for what might be something they lack—perhapsthey are not good looking, or they are too short—and thus they can offera free meal at a restaurant as a way to compensate for the lack ofattractiveness or social skills The “dinner do” site of the presentinvention is the first site to be able to have the sender offer a freemeal or restaurant invitation that is adjustable by price and status,which can be used as a negotiating method of securing a dinner date.Other dating sites can only offer what might be available such as aperson's looks, which may or not be real by their picture, or their carwhich they might or might not own, or their earnings which might ormight not be true, the “dinner do” member actually presents and offers areal offer of a free meal at a mutually agreed restaurant. A real offerthat can be acted upon immediately as a way to make the sending membermore desirable and attractive, and thus raise the probability of anacceptance of a date with the actual end result of a dinner meeting anda potential relationship.

A unique feature of the present invention is that the dating site offersits members the ability to couple a choice of restaurants from a listingof restaurants in different ethnic menus and price venues for differenteconomic member levels. Where the sending member as an added incentivegets a coupon incentive to choose certain restaurants based on the groupbuying or deal of the day coupon model. This added feature is used as amethod to increase the appeal of the member and his dating offer, andthus the chance of the receiving member accepting the dinner dateinvitation, and thus offering the “dinner do” site a clear advantageover any other dating site which do not offer the free dinner feature.

Referring now to the drawing figures in which like reference designatorsrefer to like elements, there is shown in FIG. 1 an illustration of ablock diagram showing the network architecture of a system and methodfor facilitating meal planning for a first and second individual over acommunications network in accordance with the principles of the presentinvention. The most prominent element of FIG. 1 is the server 102associated with repository or database 104 and further coupled withnetwork 106, which can be a circuit switched network, such as the PublicService Telephone Network or a packet switched network such as theInternet or the World Wide Web. Server 102 is a central controller oroperator for the functionality of the present invention, namely, adating web site that processes and distributes data, messages,advertisements and meal offers between the users, wherein the provisionof the foregoing services and data facilitates meal planning forindividuals.

FIG. 1 further includes computers 120 and 122, which may be smartphones, mobile phones, tablet computers, handheld computers, laptops,desktops, or the like. Computers 120 and 122 correspond to users 110 and112, who use the dating web site served by server 102. Computer 132corresponds to an administrator 130, who may perform supervisory oradministrative tasks on server 102. Administrator 130 may, for example,set or define advertisements or coupons for the users 110, 112. Computer132 may be a mobile computer, a desktop computer, a common computerterminal or the like.

FIG. 1 further shows that server 102 includes a database or repository104, which may be a relational database comprising a Structured QueryLanguage (SQL) database stored in a SQL server. Client computers 120,122 and 132 may also each include their own database. The repository 104serves data from a database, which is a repository for data used byserver 102 and the client computers during the course of operation ofthe invention.

The database 104 may include a user record for each user 110 and 112. Auser record may include: contact/identifying information for the user(such as age, sex, location, socioeconomic status, height, weight, haircolor, eye color, skin color, race, nationality, address, socialsecurity number, address, yearly income, religion, sexual orientation,etc.), electronic payment information for the user, informationpertaining to messages or meal offers sent by the user, informationpertaining to the purchases or coupons redeemed by the user, etc. In onealternative, a user record may include restaurant or meal locationpreferences, and date and time preferences for meals. In one embodiment,electronic payment information may comprise buyer contact/identifyinginformation, credit card data garnered from a credit or debit card andauthentication information. A user's record may be searched or viewed byothers in the form of a user profile, commonly used in well-known socialnetworking sites, that displays certain information to others.

FIG. 1 shows an embodiment of the present invention wherein networkedcomputing devices 120, 122 and 132 interact with server 102 andrepository 104 over the network 106. Server 102 includes a softwareengine that delivers applications, data, program code and otherinformation to networked computing devices 120, 122 and 132. Thesoftware engine of server 102 may perform other processes such as audioand/or video streaming or other standards for transferring multimediadata in a stream of packets that are interpreted and rendered by asoftware application as the packets arrive. It should be noted thatalthough FIG. 1 shows only three networked computing devices 120, 122and 132, the system of the present invention supports any number ofnetworked computing devices connected via network 106.

In one embodiment of the present invention, the application provided bythe server 102 of FIG. 1 is a client-server application having a clientportion that resides on a client computer (i.e., 120, 122 and 132) and aserver application that resides on server 102. For example, theapplication can be a web interface that is accessed by a client computervia network 106. The application served by server 102 may be writtenusing any of the following technologies: CSS (Cascading Style Sheets),DOM (Document Object Model), JavaScript, XPCOM (Cross-Platform ComponentObject Model), XPConnect, XPI (Cross-Platform Installer), XUL (XML UserInterface Language).

Server 102 may include program logic comprising computer source code,scripting language code or interpreted language code that is compiled toproduce computer instructions that perform various functions of thepresent invention. In one embodiment of the present invention, theprogram logic is a scripting language such as ECMAScript, CSS, XML(Extensible Markup Language), XSLT (Extensible Style-sheet LanguageTransformations), Javascript, AJAX (Asynchronous JavaScript and XML),XUL, JSP, PHP, and ASP (Active Server Pages). The program logic mayreside on a client computer (such as 120, 122, or 132), the server 102or any combination of the two.

Note that although server 102 is shown as a single and independententity, in one embodiment of the present invention, the functions ofserver 102 may be integrated with another entity, such as one of theclient computers or payment authority 145. Further, server 102 and itsfunctionality, according to a preferred embodiment of the presentinvention, can be realized in a centralized fashion in one computersystem, or in a distributed fashion where different elements are spreadacross several interconnected computer systems.

The network architecture of FIG. 1 in accordance with the principles ofthe present invention may give rise to various revenue-generatingarrangements. The administrator 130 may distribute advertisements orcoupons to users 110, 112 in exchange for a fee paid to the operators ofserver 102. The users 110, 112 may also, for example, pay an ongoing orper-transaction fee to the operators of server 102 in exchange for theservices provided by server 102.

FIG. 1 also shows a payment authority 145 to effectuate payments byusers 110 or 112 for coupons, services or the like. In the course of asales transaction, the program logic of server 102 may interface withpayment authority 145 to effectuate payment. In one embodiment of thepresent invention, the payment authority 145 is a payment gateway, whichis an e-commerce Application Service Provider (ASP) service thatauthorizes payments for individuals, e-businesses, online retailers, ortraditional brick and mortar businesses. The payment authority 145 mayaccept payment via the use of credit cards, charge cards, bank cards,gift cards, account cards, etc.

FIG. 2 is a flow chart showing the control flow of the process forfacilitating meal planning for a first and second individual over acommunications network, according to one embodiment of the presentinvention.

In step 202, the first individual 110 may visit the web site of server102, using a web browser, for example, and enters a desired profile ordesired search parameters that represent the type of person or partneruser 110 is seeking. The desired profile or search parameters mayinclude any information that is normally found in a user's record orprofile, such as age, sex, location, etc. In step 204, the server 102takes the desired profile or desired search parameters entered by theuser 110 and searches the profiles or user records in database 104 formatching profiles or records. In step 206, the server 102 displays thematching profiles or records in the web browser of user 110.Subsequently, the user 110 may view the matching profiles or records inthe web browser. In one alternative, an offer or discount (previouslydefined by an administrator, as described below) for a meal at aparticular establishment is sent to the user 110 and viewed in agraphical user interface. The offer or discount may be targetedaccording to data in the profile of user 110, as defined below. In thisalternative, the user 110 accepts the offer or discount by interactingwith the interface and thereby sends a message to the server 102accepting the offer.

In step 208, the user 110 identifies the profile of a user, user 112 tobe exact, deemed to be an appropriate partner, and the user 110 pressesa button or clicks a link in the web browser that sends a command to theserver 102 to send a message to the user 112 comprising an offer fromuser 110 to attend a meal with the user 112 and an offer to pay for allor half of the meal. In one embodiment, the user 110 may have previouslyselected a location or restaurant for dinner and this location orrestaurant is attached to his offer to user 112. In another embodiment,the user 110 may select suggested dates and times for dinner and thisdata is attached to his offer to user 112.

In step 214, server 102 sends a message the user 112 comprising an offerfrom user 110 to attend a meal with the user 112 and an offer to pay forall or half of the meal. In one embodiment, the location or restaurantselected by user 110, as well as any proposed dates and times, is sentto user 112 in the message of step 214.

In step 216, the user 112 views the message, such as in a web browser,and determines his or her response. In step 218, the user 112 sends anacceptance of the offer to attend a meal and pay for the meal (such asby clicking on a link or pressing a button in the web browser), therebyexecuting a contract to attend a meal with user 110, wherein user 110pays for the meal. In step 220, the user 112 sends an acceptance of theoffer to attend a meal and pay for half of the meal (i.e., “goingDutch”), thereby executing a contract to attend a meal with user 110,wherein each user pays for half of the meal. In steps 218, 220, the user112 may also accept the time/date and/or location of the restaurant orestablishment for the meal. In step 222, the user 112 sends a rejectionof the offers from user 110. In one alternative, the user 112 may send arejection to user 110 but may also send a suggestion for anotherlocation or restaurant, thereby indicating that user 112 may change hisor her mind if user 110 makes another offer with the suggested locationor restaurant.

In step 224, one or both of the users 110, 112 receive an offer,discount, advertisement, a group buying offer, a regular coupon or afor-pay coupon in an electronic message, wherein the ad or coupon isdirected to a restaurant or other food-related business where the users110, 112 may enjoy the meal they have just contracted to undertake. Theusers may purchase the coupon by interfacing with the payment authority145. In one embodiment, the ad or coupon may be targeted as specifiedbelow.

In one embodiment of the present invention, administrator 130 mayinterface with computer 132 (or server 102 directly) to generate anoffer, discount, advertisement, coupon, for-pay coupon, group-buyingcoupon or promotion (hereinafter referred to as a “coupon” or “offer”)and the server 102 disseminates it to users 110, 112 via pushtechnology. Push technology, or server push, describes a style ofInternet-based communication where the coupon, created by administrator130, is transmitted by the server 102 to clients. Push technology iscontrasted with pull technology, where the request for the transmissionof information is initiated by the receiver or client. Examples of pushtechnology include HTTP server push, a pushlet, long polling and FlashXMLSocket relays.

In this embodiment, administrator 130 generates a coupon definition andsends it to the server 102. The coupon definition may include adescription of goods/services being promoted, a percentage discount ongoods, a price for goods, a rebate on goods, still images, video, audio,a time limit for the promotion or sale, a tipping point for the groupbuying offer to trigger, or the like. The coupon definition may alsoinclude data pertaining to the target for the coupon, such as alocation, a region, a time period, or demographic data describingindividuals to which the offer is directed, including any such data thatis kept in the user records or profiles. The coupon definition is thenprovided to server 102, wherein the server 102 processes the coupondefinition and determines how to implement it. For example, the server102 may determine to whom the corresponding coupon is transmitted, basedon the target data specified in the coupon definition. Once processed,the server 102 transmits the corresponding coupon to the intendedrecipients, such as users 110 and 112, via push technology at thespecified time. Specifically, server 102 transmits the offer to thecomputers 120 and 122 of the users 110 and 112, respectively.

The present invention can be realized in hardware, software, or acombination of hardware and software in the system described in thefigures above. A system according to a preferred embodiment of thepresent invention can be realized in a centralized fashion in onecomputer system or in a distributed fashion where different elements arespread across several interconnected computer systems. Any kind ofcomputer system—or other apparatus adapted for carrying out the methodsdescribed herein—is suited. A typical combination of hardware andsoftware could be a general-purpose computer system with a computerprogram that, when being loaded and executed, controls the computersystem such that it carries out the methods described herein.

An embodiment of the present invention can also be embedded in acomputer program product, which comprises all the features enabling theimplementation of the methods described herein, and which—when loaded ina computer system—is able to carry out these methods. Computer programmeans or computer program as used in the present invention indicates anyexpression, in any language, code or notation, of a set of instructionsintended to cause a system having an information processing capabilityto perform a particular function either directly or after either or bothof the following a) conversion to another language, code or, notation;and b) reproduction in a different material form.

A computer system may include, inter alia, one or more computers and atleast a computer readable medium, allowing a computer system, to readdata, instructions, messages or message packets, and other computerreadable information from the computer readable medium. The computerreadable medium may include non-volatile memory, such as ROM, Flashmemory, Disk drive memory, CD-ROM, and other permanent storage.Additionally, a computer readable medium may include, for example,volatile storage such as RAM, buffers, cache memory, and networkcircuits. The computer readable medium does not include computerreadable information in a transitory state medium.

In this document, the terms “computer program medium,” “computer usablemedium,” and “computer readable medium” are used to generally refer tomedia such as main memory removable storage drive, a hard disk installedin hard disk drive, and signals. These computer program products aremeans for providing software to the computer system. The computerreadable medium allows the computer system to read data, instructions,messages or message packets, and other computer readable informationfrom the computer readable medium. The computer readable medium, forexample, may include non-volatile memory, such as Floppy, ROM, Flashmemory, Disk drive memory, CD-ROM, and other permanent storage. It isuseful, for example, for transporting information, such as data andcomputer instructions, between computer systems.

Although specific embodiments of the invention have been disclosed,those having ordinary skill in the art will understand that changes canbe made to the specific embodiments without departing from the spiritand scope of the invention. The scope of the invention is not to berestricted, therefore, to the specific embodiments. Furthermore, it isintended that the appended claims cover any and all such applications,modifications, and embodiments within the scope of the presentinvention.

We claim:
 1. A method on a server for facilitating meal planning for afirst and second individual over a communications network, comprising:receiving a desired profile from the first individual over thecommunications network; matching the desired profile to a profile of thesecond individual; sending a message over the communications network tothe first individual indicating the profile of the second individualmatched the desired profile; sending a message over the communicationsnetwork to the first individual including an offer for a meal at aparticular establishment; receiving a command from the first individualover the communications network, wherein the command comprises anacceptance of the offer for the meal at the particular establishment;receiving a command from the first individual over the communicationsnetwork, wherein the command comprises an offer to attend a meal withthe second individual at the particular establishment and an offer topay for the meal; sending a message over the communications network tothe second individual wherein the message comprises the offer from thefirst individual to attend a meal at the particular establishment withthe second individual and the offer from the first individual to pay forthe meal; and receiving a command over the communications network fromthe second individual accepting the offer to attend the meal at theparticular establishment and accepting the offer to pay for the meal,thereby executing a contract to attend a meal with the first individual,wherein the first individual pays for the meal.
 2. The method of claim1, wherein the desired profile includes one or more of: an age, a sex, arace, a location, a height, a weight, a socio-economic status indicator,a religion and a sexual orientation.
 3. The method of claim 2, whereinthe profile of the second individual includes one or more of: an age, asex, a race, a location, a height, a weight, a socio-economic statusindicator, a religion and a sexual orientation.
 4. The method of claim3, wherein a message comprises an email, a text, or a textual messagedisplayed in a computer interface.
 5. The method of claim 4, wherein acommand comprises a message sent to the server via a graphical userinterface with at least one button that an individual presses.
 6. Themethod of claim 1, wherein a meal consists of any one of breakfast,lunch or dinner.
 7. The method of claim 1, sending a targetedadvertisement to at least one of the first and the second individualbased on the contract.
 8. A method on a server for facilitating mealplanning for a first and second individual over a communicationsnetwork, comprising: receiving a desired profile from the firstindividual over the communications network; matching the desired profileto a profile of the second individual; sending a message over thecommunications network to the first individual indicating the profile ofthe second individual matched the desired profile; sending a messageover the communications network to the first individual including anoffer for a meal at a particular establishment; receiving a command fromthe first individual over the communications network, wherein thecommand comprises an acceptance of the offer for the meal at theparticular establishment; receiving a command over the communicationsnetwork from the first individual, wherein the command comprises anoffer to attend a meal with the second individual at the particularestablishment and an offer to pay for all or half of the meal; sending amessage over the communications network to the second individual whereinthe message comprises the offer from the first individual to attend ameal at the particular establishment with the second individual and theoffer from the first individual to pay for all or half of the meal; andreceiving a command over the communications network from the secondindividual, the command: 1) accepting the offer to attend the meal atthe particular establishment, 2) accepting the offer to pay for half ofthe meal, and 3) and agreeing to pay for half of the meal, therebyexecuting a contract to attend a meal with the first individual, whereineach individual will pay for half of the meal.
 9. The method of claim 8,wherein the desired profile includes one or more of: an age, a sex, arace, a location, a height, a weight, a socio-economic status indicator,a religion and a sexual orientation.
 10. The method of claim 9, whereinthe profile of the second individual includes one or more of: an age, asex, a race, a location, a height, a weight, a socio-economic statusindicator, a religion and a sexual orientation.
 11. The method of claim10, wherein a message comprises an email, a text, or a textual messagedisplayed in a computer interface.
 12. The method of claim 11, wherein acommand comprises a message sent to the server via a graphical userinterface with at least one button that an individual presses.
 13. Themethod of claim 8, wherein a meal consists of any one of breakfast,lunch or dinner.
 14. The method of claim 8, sending a targetedadvertisement to at least one of the first and the second individualbased on the contract.
 15. A computer system for facilitating mealplanning for a first and second individual over a communicationsnetwork, comprising a server connected to the communications network,wherein the server is configured for: receiving a desired profile fromthe first individual over the communications network; matching thedesired profile to a profile of the second individual; sending a messageover the communications network to the first individual indicating theprofile of the second individual matched the desired profile; sending amessage over the communications network to the first individualincluding an offer for a meal at a particular establishment; receiving acommand from the first individual over the communications network,wherein the command comprises an acceptance of the offer for the meal atthe particular establishment; receiving a command from the firstindividual over the communications network, wherein the commandcomprises an offer to attend a meal at the particular establishment withthe second individual and an offer to pay for the meal; sending amessage over the communications network to the second individual whereinthe message comprises the offer from the first individual to attend ameal at the particular establishment with the second individual and theoffer from the first individual to pay for the meal; and receiving acommand over the communications network from the second individualaccepting the offer to attend the meal at the particular establishmentand accepting the offer to pay for the meal, thereby executing acontract to attend a meal with the first individual, wherein the firstindividual pays for the meal.
 16. The computer system of claim 15,wherein the desired profile includes one or more of: an age, a sex, arace, a location, a height, a weight, a socio-economic status indicator,a religion and a sexual orientation.
 17. The computer system of claim16, wherein the profile of the second individual includes one or moreof: an age, a sex, a race, a location, a height, a weight, asocio-economic status indicator, a religion and a sexual orientation.18. The computer system of claim 17, wherein a message comprises anemail, a text, or a textual message displayed in a computer interface.19. The computer system of claim 18, wherein a command comprises amessage sent to the server via a graphical user interface with at leastone button that an individual presses.
 20. The computer system of claim15, wherein the server is further configured for sending a targetedadvertisement to at least one of the first and the second individualbased on the contract.